SPD – nope! Not again thanks…

Deciding to go through another pregnancy was a big deal for me. It was an easy decision because I wanted Pinky to have a sibling to play with, and when I thought about our little family there was another person missing. Both myself and my husband felt the same…. So essentially it was easy, but it took some psychological prep…

Am I allowed to miss them? – Daddy

Everybody has diffrent motives for getting up on a Monday morning and going to work. Mine, well thats easy. Pinky, Perky and Mummy. Thats all, provide them with what they need. Somewhere to live, something to eat, and for them to have clothes on their backs. Simple. Errr… not exactly. Monday morning…Alarm starts going crazy…snooze snooze snooze.  O S*** I’m…

Mini Mummy – Mummy's perspective 

Everyday I watch my daughters grow, both emotionally and physically. Everyday Pinky looks more like Daddy…. Those big blue eyes that change in intensity depending on her mood and tiredness (exactly like Daddy’s), the dusty blonde hair, the face shape. Perky has a few more of my features, darker hair, rounder face, but still those beautiful blue eyes. I wouldn’t…

Goals – Daddy

   My Parenting Goal: Mould Pinky & Perky like clay into individual people with manners, drive, ambition, determination, a sense of humour, and to care about what they do (work or play). Be as good a father as mine is to me. Progress Report… Need more water. Moulding clay is much harder than it looks on the telly. 

Patience is a virtue…

Children must leave behind a special kind of patience in their mothers when they are born. I do not possess much patience naturally. I never have. Yet somehow I am finding the patience to let Pinky attempt to put her own shoes and clothes on. I’m finding ways to accept that it takes 20-30 minutes to get out of the house…

Tuesday – Mummy

I like Tuesday. I always look forward to Tuesday. It’s the day of the week where I get to spend the whole day with Perky by myself. Pinky goes to nursery for the day, we kept her going even whilst I’m off work so she still has a place when I return. I enjoy making the most of these days,…