Our ‘Date Nights’

Over the past few years what I consider to be ‘date nights’ have been fairly few and far between. I understand that this is somewhat inevitable once you have kids but it does grate on me. Then the other week I realised that that wasn’t a fair outlook on the time Hubby and I spend together. We actually spend quite a lot of quality time together and although we may not get to go out for dinner once a month as we would like to that doesn’t mean we don’t have ‘date nights’. So since September is our special month I though it was a good time to reevaluate what I consider to be some of our dates both out of the house, having utilised a babysitting token with the ‘in laws’, and stay at home dates. Plus I’ve thrown in some ideas that we haven’t done yet but we have discussed in the past.

Baby-sitter dates:  

  • .Dinner at a restaurant with cocktails pre or post romantic meal. Candles are a bonus. I’m currently a huge fan of Japanese cuisine.
  • G.o karting. Not the most romantic of dates but loads of fun. Plus a bit of ‘healthy’ competition.
  • Pub quiz. I struggle with this as a date but I love a pub quiz and since kids we just don’t get to do them. We went to one a couple of weeks ago and it was really good fun.
  • A night in a hotel, maybe even a really swanky one! My fav! I love a good hotel, I’ve stayed in quite a few over the last few years so now I think I’m a connoisseur (I am not!)
  • A night time haunted tour. I like the idea of this but in reality I don’t think I would sleep for a week afterwards.
  • A museum or art gallery trip. I’m not sure Hubby would go for this one. Maybe the Imperial War Museum, or Churchills War Rooms could persuade him.
  • We’re going to the zoo zoo zoo. I fecking love the zoo!!!!
  • Boating on the river. Very wind in the willows. Probably not in reality.
  • Day at a Theme Park or one of their special fright nights over hallowe’en.
  • A picnic. Very romantic! Just beware when you set up the picnic blanket and don’t almost put it on top of the dog shit left by an irresponsible owner. I nearly did this the other week…. It would likely ruin the mood.
  • Visit a local farmers/craft market.
  • Spa day. Maybe even enjoy a couples massage in the interest of spending time together. I like this idea in theory but I’m 99% certain I’d be bored after an hour.
  • Cinema trip. The end of December through January is ‘Oscar Season’ which is when a vast majority of the best films are released in the cinema. This is an added bonus as I would rather be in a cinema in the winter months than the summer ones.

Staying-in Dates:

  • A takeaway with a bottle of nice wine. I’m a wine snob and not hugely proud of it…. So it has to be nice wine!
  • Turn the TV off and play a game. We enjoy scrabble or a few card games. Recently we’ve even managed to calm some of the competitiveness.
  • Light some candles, put some cushions on the floor and talk, maybe plan the next holiday. Again wine and a takeaway helps.
  • Make a home cooked meal together. Add dessert. Add wine. Again… Good wine only please. On these evenings I go out and buy an expensive cut of beef, Hubby cooks it whilst I sort the trimmings.
  • Movie night. We don’t get to go the cinema these days. Fortunately this isn’t really a problem anymore as most films get released fairly quickly from cinema. We have Apple TV so I use my iTunes to rent a movie at home. Plus a bag of microwave butterkist popcorn 😋😋😋😋😋.

I’m sure there are other ideas I have missed.

I’m open to further suggestions……?

 

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9 Comments

  1. September 18, 2016 / 2:22 pm

    Some lovely ideas though we wouldn’t manage many in one month! Hope you have fun #KCACOLS

    • September 18, 2016 / 6:31 pm

      No I’m not sure we would get too many done in one month. Certainly hoping to appreciate simply sitting with a glass of wine and talking more.

  2. September 19, 2016 / 9:28 am

    Lovely ideas. I’m gonna note down some of these #eatsleepblogrt

  3. September 19, 2016 / 11:09 am

    It’s so nice to spend quality time together, date nights often get forgotten when children arrive! Love the idea of a game night.

    #bigpinklink

  4. September 21, 2016 / 6:14 am

    Great ideas! Me and the hubby don’t get to go out much due to his working hours. The at home ideas are great. I’d never get bored with a spa day but my hubby would. #KCACOLS

  5. September 21, 2016 / 10:20 am

    I love these ideas, Hubby and I don’t get many times without the littles so I’m always keen to hear suggestions of at home dates and these are all lovely. Thank you for sharing with #bigpinklink x

  6. September 22, 2016 / 11:00 am

    Lovely ideas, I particularly like the idea of a couples spa day, but not sure if my other half would go for it! Might have to look into that one. Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS, hope you can come back again Sunday after next x

  7. September 22, 2016 / 6:53 pm

    A great idea to do a nighttime walk – i went on a couple of London Walks before having the children and found it so interesting and fun, but never did it with my husband… you have planted a seed there… Thank you!
    x alice
    #kcacols

    • September 22, 2016 / 7:28 pm

      Yes I’m very keen on that idea too!

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