The A-Z of Toddlers

A little while ago I wrote the A-Z of Parenthood. I really enjoyed righting it and thought it was something I would definitely like to do a few more posts along those lines. Todays little snippet is all about toddlers.

A is for Attitude. I think they do this to prepare us for their teenage years. If I am right about this I am in for one hell of a ride when the girls get older!

B is for Bits. Call them what you will, penis, vagina, willy, winky, foof. They will be discussed and puzzles over for years. If you are lucky you won’t need to discuss the anatomical differences of a man and a woman in length and at great audible volume in the supermarket on a busy Saturday morning.

C is for Crying. There is lots of crying in a week in our house, not always from the toddlers but they usually play a huge dramatic part in the whole saga.

D is for Dirty. Everything is dirty and everyone is dirty. Literally, where does it come from? There is no point in having anything white, clothes, bedding or walls.   Seriously just get rid of it now and save yourself the inevitable heartache of your precious belongings being ruined.

E is for Escape Plan. I am sure I always strap them in tightly to car seats, high chairs and the like….

F is for Flatulence. Ok, so I admit… I almost always laugh when the girls trump. I mean how can someone so little and dainty make such a noise?

G is for Growing. They grow so fast both physically and mentally. Things are no longer safe on the top shelf so they have either grown or have developed go go gadget arms! Realistically either scenario is possible.

H is for Hungry. I|s there ever a moment in the day they don’t claim to be hungry? No, seriously… I’m actually asking.

I is for Illness. It is everywhere all of the time. I swear toddlers have constant snotty noses. I thought winter colds were supposed to be confined to the winter?

J is for Jekyll and Hyde. I refuse to believe this applies to just my two (tell me it isn’t just my two…). One minute they are fine, lovely, kind, gentle and happy little girls. The next I honestly wonder if they have been possessed by a demon. And hubby says I am hormonal! BAAAAHAHAHA is he in for a shock when the girls hit their teens.

K is for Knees. Was there ever a time where they weren’t bruised or grazed?

L is for Licking. Why do they need to lick EVERYTHING?

M is for Manners. We all try to teach them… All we can hope is when they grow up they are no longer burping, nose picking, tantruming human beings.

N is for Naptime. Oh I love naptime. I have never understood those mums who say they miss their children whilst they are napping. Seriously get over it, because once that nap time disappears forever it will be too late to appreciate it. Have a hot cup of tea, put a film on with Tom Hardy in it and enjoy that time!

O is for Orange. Their face and cloths are permanently orange. I’m not sure why they haven’t eaten anything orange for weeks now?

P is for Persuasion. Never will your skills of persuasion, or the toddler’s skills, be strong than at bedtime!

Q is for Questions. I don’t have the scientific data to back this up but I believe the average toddler can ask an average of 157,896.75 questions per day.

R is for Repetition. If you have toddlers I don’t need to elaborate on this one!

S is for Soft play. You can try and avoid it but eventually you will wake up one morning and think ‘We haven’t been in ages, why is that? Let’s go, it will be good to let the kids burn off some energy.’ Then you will get there and you will remember why you haven’t been in ages!

T is for Toilet. One day this won’t be my most frequented part of the house. If it isn’t them every 5 minutes, it is me (thanks for the weakened bladder), and I obviously require an entourage… ‘What do you mean you don’t want an audience in the loo, Mummy? You’re so silly!’

U is for Up. They want to be picked up all the time. When you are walking, when you are cooking, when you are trying to drink hot tea.   Maybe it is just mine but both of them seem to have an extreme aversion to keeping their feet on the ground for any length of time.

V is for Victory. It is all about the little victories.

W is for Washing. So at the last head count there were only four of us living in this house. So where the actual fudge does all of the washing come from?

X is for eXtraction (ok I have taken a little poetic licence on this one). At some point you are going to need to extract a foreign object of some form from an orifice or two. It’s less a case of ‘balance of probability’ and more a case of ‘inevitable certainty’.

Y is for Yuk. Everything you make to eat or suggest eating is ‘Yuk’ and yet for some reason mud is the most appealing food group known to a toddler! I mean FFS.

Z is for Zoom. Everything* gets done at 100 mph. And be suspicious or fearful of anything that doesn’t!

*Getting ready to leave the house can only be conducted at snails pace. It is exempt from this rule.

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48 Comments

  1. February 2, 2017 / 9:47 am

    Ha these are brilliant! I X is nearly 3 now and licks everything, I’ve no idea why! It seems to be a new thing too! And he’s never not hungry. Ever! #coolmumclub

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 2:56 pm

      I don’t know how they eat so much!?

  2. February 2, 2017 / 11:46 am

    Haha love this…..and just when we think we’ve got it all locked down, the A-Z will totally change again for the threes! Thanks for linking up to #coolmumclub lovely xoxo

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 2:57 pm

      Oh yes! I like to write them every now and again as we reach the next stage of unexpected parenting delights.

  3. February 2, 2017 / 4:29 pm

    Most of the crying in this house isn’t from the toddler either, haha!

    #coolmumclub

  4. February 2, 2017 / 6:27 pm

    Mine are always hungry too! And my 2yo has just discovered the word “Yuk”. It’s a good job they’re so cute! haha #coolmumclub

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 2:58 pm

      Isn’t it just! They are cheeky!

  5. February 2, 2017 / 8:26 pm

    This isn’t brilliant, and spot on. Nap times are a gift from the gods and now the fickle bastards are about to take mine away, no more Tom Hardy films for me 😫
    #SharingtheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 2:58 pm

      NOOOOOO! But how will you cope?

  6. February 2, 2017 / 9:13 pm

    Love this! Yes, they are always hungry and I have no clue how or why?!? Who are these people that say they miss their children during nap time?? I love nap time and I am holding onto this last bit while Holly naps. I know the end is coming soon!! Thank you for joining us at #SharingtheBlogLove x

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 2:59 pm

      I don’t think I am friends with anyone who misses their children during nap time…. I’m not sure we would have anything in common 😉

  7. February 3, 2017 / 4:56 pm

    Ahhh, U is for Up!! This is my life story at the moment – the sight of my son stood blocking my way, facing me and holding out his hands, demanding “up up!” I’m desperately trying to get him to walk more as I’m struggling to carry him now he’s so big, but I still cave on so many occasions. And you’ve just persuaded me out of taking Max to soft play next week – what was I thinking?! Thanks for joining us at #SharingtheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 3:00 pm

      Oh no don’t do it! Soft play may seem like a good idea but it almost never is!

  8. February 3, 2017 / 5:02 pm

    Oh nap time! How I miss nap time! This is definitely something I loved with the eldest and never really got with the youngest sob 😩 Xx #Sharingthebloglove

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 3:01 pm

      Oh no! Naps are the best, we are very close to the end now, I think it will be a long grieving process X

  9. February 4, 2017 / 8:26 am

    Haha! As the owner of a toddler I totally relate to this. Some of the things are still to come (mines only 18 months), but really, why is everything covered in orange residue??? #sharingthebloglove

    • Winnettes
      February 4, 2017 / 3:02 pm

      I wish I could give you an answer…. It has been puzzling me for years!

  10. February 5, 2017 / 7:35 pm

    Hahahaha! Great post! Totally agree with ‘L’ is for licking EVERYTHING 😉 #sharingthebloglove

    • Winnettes
      February 6, 2017 / 7:14 pm

      hehe! Absolutely everything!

    • Winnettes
      February 7, 2017 / 1:42 pm

      They really are odd little things! I wrote a parenting one a few months ago, I quite like a good A-Z, they are good fun to write X

  11. February 7, 2017 / 10:25 pm

    This is great. The hunger thing is strange, though. Our eldest often complains of being hungry, but then barely touches his meals. However, his little sister hoovers up every crumb and speck on her high-chair table. He doesn’t take after Mum and Dad at all.

    • Winnettes
      February 8, 2017 / 11:24 am

      They are unpredictable strange little souls aren’t they!?

  12. February 9, 2017 / 2:09 pm

    Ah this is totally true! H for hungry, they’re always hungry. It never ends! Esepcially after school/preschool! #SharingtheBlogLove

  13. February 9, 2017 / 4:55 pm

    Peachy is only 14 months old and she loves to lick things. I think she’s been licking things ever since she discovered that she had a tongue. I have so many photos of her as a baby with her tongue sticking out as she’s trying to lick something. Usually me as I’m the one holding her. #SharingtheBlogLove

  14. February 9, 2017 / 5:01 pm

    Who would say that they miss their little one during their nap? nonsense! Make the most of it ladies!!!! Love post and so true on so many accounts. Yes, they are constantly ill or hungry haha #SharingtheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 10, 2017 / 11:45 am

      Hehe! I know, I live for nap time these days!

  15. February 9, 2017 / 9:51 pm

    You have nailed it with these! I especially like L. I caught The Boy licking mud off his shoe this afternoon. I mean for goodness sake is he really that H? Brilliant! Thanks for sharing with #DreamTeam x

    • Winnettes
      February 10, 2017 / 11:46 am

      MUD? honestly, why do they lick everything?

  16. February 10, 2017 / 12:55 pm

    Love this – so wish you on the naptime – in fact it’s happening now and so I get to read this with a cup of tea! #SharingTheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 11, 2017 / 10:03 pm

      Nap time is the best! I hope you enjoyed your tea x

  17. February 10, 2017 / 8:07 pm

    Haha! I love thiss. So true! Every single one of them! L is for licking. It’s true. They really do they lick everything in sight! hahaha!

    • Winnettes
      February 11, 2017 / 10:03 pm

      I wish I knew why! I’m glad you could relate X

  18. February 11, 2017 / 10:26 am

    This is a fantastic read! Really funny and very true! #sharingthebloglove

    • Winnettes
      February 11, 2017 / 10:04 pm

      Thank you, I’m pleased you could relate.

    • Winnettes
      February 11, 2017 / 10:05 pm

      I really wish I knew! It is beyond me!

  19. February 11, 2017 / 8:46 pm

    Wooow I love it! Can’t wait when my son will be a little toddler:) I know it’s no the easiest time but kids are so funny:)
    #SharingtheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 11, 2017 / 10:05 pm

      Yeah you’re right. It is really really hard but they do and say some of the funniest things!

  20. February 12, 2017 / 6:14 pm

    Oh my goodness we can relate to one or two of these. #SharingtheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 12, 2017 / 9:19 pm

      Hehe! I’m glad you could relate, thank you for reading X

  21. February 13, 2017 / 10:07 am

    Jekyll and Hyde definitely applies to my twins as well!!! I could relate to this, it made me smile 🙂 #SharingtheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 13, 2017 / 11:02 am

      I’m glad it made you smile! Xx

  22. February 14, 2017 / 5:48 pm

    Hahah I can relate to all of this! Especially UP!! snoreeeeee!! Great post hun xx #SharingtheBlogLove

    • Winnettes
      February 14, 2017 / 7:07 pm

      Hehehe! I’m glad it resonated X

  23. February 15, 2017 / 12:40 pm

    Hahaha yes! These are brilliant, especially identifying with Up, Toilet and Jekyll and Hyde! It’s a right up and down game this parenting lark isn’t it?! #sharingthebloglove

    • Winnettes
      February 15, 2017 / 10:27 pm

      Yes it is quite the rollercoaster! I’m glad you liked it X

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